Is it wrong to pursue your dreams in life? I guess nothing is right or wrong as long as you follow your gut feeling and take responisbility for your choice. I am not the kind of person that always takes advantage of the environment or opportunity to 'fight for
your right'. (I am sensitive to opportunities just in case you think that I am a daft piece of woodblock.) It could be that I am too lazy to do that, but I rather hold on to the belief that we are bounded by what the environment provides. (Yah, I am aware that I am sticking to the Resource Dependence Model)The butterfly effect: Everything you do, it will result in something. I so agree with it. Where there is gain, there would be loss. One effect cancelling the other. Force and reistence force.
I always feel that any of my actions will impose on others (I know, I am giving myself too much credit) and try to be as considerate as possible. That is my gut, and I am still trying to stick with it. Somehow, it makes me wonder on what would happen when I step into the working society in the future. I guess it is a little too far. Still, I can never be like some of my friends and relatives who will forgo anything just so to make their dreams come true. I guess you will never catch me saying things like:"This is what I am going to do and I will not anything stop me at all."
Look at the contestants of Project Superstar. While noticing how much they have slimmed down and how much tears they have shed, have you noticed that the same thing has happened to their family members? There is nothing wrong with pursuing your dreams. In fact, I absolutely envy these people because they can put down all their emotion strings and start up a new bubble and invite everyone around them to live in his bubble. When the bubble burst, everyone falls and gets hurt. Most importantly, bubbles don't last. Care for people around you today. We live to trancend, don't only think of yourself and take others for granted. Life wouldn't be complete if you are the champion in a competition where no one watches.
Jacqueline
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