Why do people shift the blame to others? Because they are guilty. Why do people feel guilty? Because they believe that they are at fault? Blaming on others is the most unfair thing. It is no different from accusation.
I have been accused so many times by so many people. The scars have been inflicted onto my heart so many times and everyone someone does that, it feels like the blood is about to gush out anytime. Perhaps it's because accusation arises from the lack of trust, the channeling of blame, and the untruth in the situation. I can't take it lying down that trust is breached and a minor situation highlights the little faith others have in you when you have always thought otherwise. It hurts to think that friendship cannot withstand the test of a minor event. but then again, it's time like this whereby u have to acccept the harsh reality.
I get real affected when people blame you on things you have never done just so to run away from their fault. Consciously or unconsciously. This is what many people have done to me. I have lost count. Time and time again, I get sick even at the thought of pushing away the accountability. There is no difference between consiously or unconsciously, cos in the end u still hurt others. However, uncounscious makes a person more redeeming.
Another reason attributable to why I hate accusation is the lack of element of truth in the whole situation. I am not talking about the holistic truth cos there can't be any truth in the world but I reject anything that is miles away from the truth. If we can't even live honestly in the world, why bother to carry on with your life.
I see who you are, why and how you feel. thanks for helping me to figure out.
Jacqueline
7:34 AM
