Slippers- happy, sweet, and adorable, you are well
loved by everyone. People cannot help but like
you. You love to be surrounded by people that
love you, who- in your case- is anyone.
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Saw this quiz on emily's and Yun's blog and thought I could try it out. After all it's fun cpmparing the different results. But Too bad, I am not sweet, not adorable and not well loved by everyone.
I was on the bus back from tuition yesterday when a thought struck me. (what to do, I am a dreamer. I bet by the time we reach 40+ I would be the first to have plenty of white hair!) I thought of the multiple reasons as to why no man can interest me and slowly came to a conclusion. I love myself and my family too much such that any guy could at most only be a bonus to me. Maybe that's why I seemed independent.
Well, i reached home and my parents were having dinner. So I sat there and told them by conclusion. (omiting that I love them too much. They wouldn't believe! ;) ) Mum disagreed immediately. She said that if I love myself that much, then why I always do self-sacrificial stuff. Dad, on the other hand, went on the
"You are only 20, when you get older you will understand. Maybe next time you work overseas and get a boyfriend from other countries. They suit your personality more... anyway time has changed, I can't give my opinion..." All of a sudden, Mum said, "Oh, these kind of things, ask your Dad. He has more experience." Hahaha... and Dad trying hard to hide his smile, insisted that Mum knows more. I told them that now we have many places to go, but no time and they said that they had no places to go then, but a lot of time. I told them that it is sweet to hold hands, walk on the shore...and Mum said," Told you I have not much experience, Six years of dating and I went to the beach only once." Hahaha... And Dad was like so embarrassed, muttering to himself. It's so sweet, I enjoyed seeing elderly couples still together, expressing their love, their pure love without any lust tainting it. Anyway, I found an agreeing email that shows what a woman wants. Check it out below:
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was
>> > pursuing the
>> > >question "What kind of man are you looking for?"
>> > >
>> > >She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in
>> > the eye and
>> > >asking,
>> > >"Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said
>> > >"Yes."
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >She began to expound...
>> > >"As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position
>> > to ask a
>> > >man what he
>> > >can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my
>> > own bills. I take
>> > >care of my household without the help of any
>> > man...or woman for that
>> > >matter.
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to
>> > the
>> > >table?" The man
>> > >looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was
>> > referring to money.
>> > >She
>> > >quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not
>> > referring
>> > >to money.
>> > >I need something more. I need a man who is striving
>> > for perfection in
>> > >every aspect of life."
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked
>> > her to explain.
>> > >She
>> > >said "I am looking for someone who is striving for
>> > perfection
>> > >mentally
>> > >because I need conversation and mental stimulation.
>> > I don't need a
>> > >simple-minded man.
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >"I am looking for someone who is striving for
>> > perfection
>> > >spiritually
>> > >because I don't need to be unequally
>> > yoked...believers mixed with
>> > >unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.
>> > >
>> > >"I need a man who is striving for perfection
>> > financially
>> > >because I don't
>> > >need a financial burden.
>> > >
>> > >"I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to
>> > understand
>> > >what I
>> > >go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me
>> > grounded.
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >"I am looking for someone who I can respect. In
>> > order to be
>> > >submissive,
>> > >I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man
>> > who isn't taking
>> > >care
>> > >of his business. I have no problem being
>> > submissive...he just has to
>> > >be
>> > >worthy.
>> > >
>> > >"God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't
>> > help a man
>> > >if he
>> > >can't help himself."
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He
>> > sat there with a
>> > >puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a
>> > lot."
>>>>She replied, "I'm worth a lot."
I think this, or at least some part of it represents what a woman wants. Not money..though that can be a bonus that I wouldn't mind. =P
Jacqueline
7:42 AM
