"Cold war is the war with the greatest form of destruction"
How hard is it to apologise to a person when you do him or her wrong? Apologies made up a huge part of my life. To me, they are the entry to building a stronger relationship. I simply hate it when people refused to admit their mistakes and made me appear like I was not understanding or over calculative. Even if I were exceptionally difficult to handle on that particular day(there are times whereby I refused to give in), the triggering factor still comes from your part and a SINCERE apology could resolve any and every animosity that had occured. Not admitting your mistakes and holding on to a huge ego only make you look empty headed and shallow. If you are that self-centred and think that you are the receiver of bad treatment, then you must have been guilty of doing something that you should not have done. If not, why do you think the response you got from others is negative. It is your guilt that makes you decipher it in the negative light. Remaining silent does not help in convincing yourself that you are innocent. Silence makes the truth ambiguous from your perspective but that doesn't blur the other party's perspective. Therefore cold war not only destroys the stable personality that you have built up, but also a relationship that has withstand all turbulence. If it can conquer so many areas, then why not a mere 'pride'? I am not begging for apologies, but clearing misunderstandings. If you chose to take it the hard way, then there really is a need for you to sit down and think about who you really are.
Jacqueline
10:30 AM
