Had a blue Christmas... a horrible boxing day... Felt like boxing her. Didn't even blog. Lost my handphone too. The dark patch of life is coming back again. It came back just when I told Leiming that I disagree with him that we live in the world just so to "hang in there". I think the more we fear for a thing to happen, the more likely it is for it to happen. It's the same logic as not wanting to meet an ex at a party, anticipating the worse and finding him there with a new girl the momment you stepped into the ballroom. It is also similar to trying hard not to stain your favourite dress and finally staining it in the middle of a perfect date. This is what I read in a book called BEING HAPPY. ( I thought that it would be another one of those "self-help book for the depressed and helpless" but after a while I realised that I was wrong. The following shows only some of the sentences that I thought it's worth some thought)
"We dealt so much on the fears that we have attracted what we have been avoiding."
== Even if we say in our mind," I don't want 'A' to happen, we will gravitate toward 'A". Our mind cannot move away from anything, only toward something.
"Successful people move toward success. Failures try to run away from failures.
==If there is one mental principle which can transforn losers to achievers, it is the 'concentrate on what you want' principle.
(Right, below is the convincing part. Read on...)
"It is laughable to so into a store and say to the assisstant," I don't want milk, I don't want bread. I don't want cheese," and expect to return home satisfied. Yet most people stagger through life bemoaning hopeless situations. (that's me, though I thought I could make use of reverse psychology) We must focus on what we want.
(the next theory is even more fascinating. We have to agree... Read on...)
"Another impressing principle is that often, when we finally develop the courage to meet a problem head on, the problem disappears and we don't have to face it." That is when we decides to face a fear, the fear evaporates. (I raised both hands to agree. Totally agree...)
Actually there are more theories and I thought they are good. Let's have positive thoughts. Don't say try because our mind will really try. Say. I will be positve. Perhaps we would have a better life. No, not 'perhaps', we WILL have a great life. Motivated? Hope it helps, no, not hope... I think... no, keep it accurate and simple. It WILL work. =) I can do with or without my 6610. 3310is fine. I am independant. I don't rely on anyone. True friends are bonus blessings... Great friends pull me through...
Jacqueline
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